Married Adult Baby Diaper Lover (ABDL) continuing my journey of self-acceptance, self-worth, and becoming the best version of myself with an affinity to wear diapers.
I recently shared in an earlier post about how important timing is. Most of us spend years worrying about this conversation, and others like it. I honestly felt that when I got married that new part of my life with my wife, and eventually children, would fill whatever part of my life needed diapers. Eventually … Continue reading An unintentional step back
I still don’t completely understand the allure and draw of diapers for myself. You’d think after years and years with them that I’d have a much more structured and solid cause and effect understanding of them. Yet, this morning I felt like I should wear one to work so I slipped one on and headed … Continue reading Padded peace
When we learn to accept and understand ourselves, we are able to begin speaking "our" language. The language of who we truly are. Finding our own voice, and learning how to articulate that to first ourselves and then others will empower us to become better people. This concept came from my little sister who, at … Continue reading Speaking YOUR language
On my way into work this morning I was listening to a podcast. My listening behaviors or tastes are all over the place. I find myself listening to various genres on Audible (I welcome your suggestions in the comments, PLEASE!), both fiction and non-fiction, as well as pretty much any type of music depending on … Continue reading Control
A few nights ago I was helping my youngest son with his spelling list for the week. He, like many six year old boys, has a very quick style of writing that sometimes resembles the English language. More than the way to spell the words I worked with him on focusing on how we wrote … Continue reading Being proud of something about you
Which hope we have as an anchor of the soul, both sure and steadfast, and which entereth into that within the veil;Hebrews 6:19 Thoughts from Hope, an anchor of the soul Where do we place our faith? Where do we anchor ourselves? Upon what rock, or sandy place do we build the foundation in which … Continue reading Hope, an anchor of the soul
I got an email from someone who has been reading the blog. He was looking for advise on how to communicate his desire to wear diapers to his wife of four years. They have been married for four years, and recently welcomed their second bundle of joy into the world. We’ve only communicated over the … Continue reading Timing is everything
I’ve never been a huge fan of “little age.” Perhaps I haven’t connected or understand that part of ABDL yet. I understand the reasoning or backing behind the idea, and think there might even be a cuteness factor there, but it doesn’t resonate with me yet. That being said, I have been thinking for a … Continue reading One year old..
During a talk I recently listened to the following scripture was paraphrased from Isaiah 6:9: “And he said, Go, and tell this people, Hear ye indeed, but understand not; and see ye indeed, but perceive not.” It is estimated that we make ~35,000 choices each and every day. Some choices are proactive, and the majority … Continue reading Seeing and perceiving, hearing and understanding
Growing up with diapers I internally struggled to understand myself. Decades later I understand how ineffective this is, and how I should have sought to talk with someone. I did make one, feeble, attempt at reaching out to my mother but I don’t know how it would have gone. The last thing a parent wants … Continue reading Slow and Steady is winning the race!
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