I am Aberrantly Me. I am a..

ABDL (Adult Baby Diaper Lover): I have lived my entire life with an affinity to wear diapers. It is something I have worked to ignore, remove, and fight the majority of my life. It wasn’t until this blog began that I had changed the mindset to the concept of self acceptance and incorporating diapers into my life where they can help me be the best version of myself. This ABDL blog discusses the various aspects of my life, and the impact that adult diapers can have on them.

Husband: Married to my best friend. I have shared with her my affinity for diapers, and her acceptance of me has allowed me to accept myself in diapers (something I would not have ever thought possible). Our continued growth together has shown me how we truly are better together.

Father: My kids, and their passions, are my daily motivation to want to be a better person. I feel that my journey for self-acceptance has given me additional tools and insight into the tough conversations that have come and will come as my children discover who they are.

Child of God: I am a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (formerly/commonly known as The Mormons). My family’s faith guides and directs us to be the best version of ourselves individually and together as a family. My faith and journey in diapers are intertwined with each other as I searched for my “why” regarding diapers early in life.


My blog allows me to continue to work through my โ€œbig threeโ€ with discussion around in my personal, professional, and family life. Here are some of my latest posts.


A Spider-man Birthday Card

Birthdays are interesting the older we get.  For many it turns from the anticipation of gifts and toys and cake to another day where we are reminded we have made another orbit around the sun.  Adulthood often robs us of some of the simplicity and joy that childhood often brought us.  ABDLs have an interestingโ€ฆ

Unintentional Reminiscingย 

While on a ladder, fixing my roof recently, I had a conversation that had happened a few years earlier with another ABDL pop into my mind.  I soon realized that I had been doing the exact same task at that time when I was having the conversation with them. It was interesting that even thoughโ€ฆ

My First Diaper Check

If an ABDL were to write a letter to Santa (or a wishlist) there would be many different things listed.  These would be material things ranging from certain diapers they want to wear, a onesie, and perhaps many childhood objects or toys that they would like to have.  There would also be experiences or interactionsโ€ฆ


The Power of Community – I started a Discord Server for ABDLs and their loved ones as we all search for community, acceptance, and deeper understanding of who we are. I welcome you to reach out for an invite and join our great group of men and women trying to live their best lives.


I continue to work on a comprehensive list of resources that help both the ABDL and their loved ones in the search for acceptance and understanding.


I’d love to hear from you!

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