ABDL (Adult Baby Diaper Lover): I have lived my entire life with an affinity to wear diapers. It is something I have worked to ignore, remove, and fight the majority of my life. It wasn’t until this blog began that I had changed the mindset to the concept of self acceptance and incorporating diapers into my life where they can help me be the best version of myself. This ABDL blog discusses the various aspects of my life, and the impact that adult diapers can have on them.
Husband: Married to my best friend. I have shared with her my affinity for diapers, and her acceptance of me has allowed me to accept myself in diapers (something I would not have ever thought possible). Our continued growth together has shown me how we truly are better together.
Father: My kids, and their passions, are my daily motivation to want to be a better person. I feel that my journey for self-acceptance has given me additional tools and insight into the tough conversations that have come and will come as my children discover who they are.
Child of God: I am a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (formerly/commonly known as The Mormons). My family’s faith guides and directs us to be the best version of ourselves individually and together as a family. My faith and journey in diapers are intertwined with each other as I searched for my “why” regarding diapers early in life.
My blog allows me to continue to work through my “big three” with discussion around in my personal, professional, and family life. Here are some of my latest posts.
Is self-care selfish?
I keep a journal that I frequent, more or less, on a weekly basis. It is a book of blank pages, no lines, where I can draw and scribe what is going on in my life. This blog, and the associated documents that I keep to prepare for posts, has become a similar method of…
See Yourself, Be Yourself
While reading a new book it began talking about how we all too often define ourselves by our work. People ask, “What do you do?” When you are at an icebreaker event or some kind of “getting to know you” situation, how do you choose to introduce yourself? Do you lead with your career? Do…
Becoming a parent as an ABDL
I have always been an overthinker. Standing in the shower I will work through countless scenarios that have such a tiny likelihood of actually happening. This can be healthy, but I know I’ve experienced a tipping point where it is detrimental to my mental health. I will feel my mental state change because of something…
The Power of Community – I started a Discord Server for ABDLs and their loved ones as we all search for community, acceptance, and deeper understanding of who we are. I welcome you to reach out for an invite and join our great group of men and women trying to live their best lives.
I continue to work on a comprehensive list of resources that help both the ABDL and their loved ones in the search for acceptance and understanding.
I’d love to hear from you!
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