I am Aberrantly Me. I am a..

ABDL (Adult Baby Diaper Lover): I have lived my entire life with an affinity to wear diapers. It is something I have worked to ignore, remove, and fight the majority of my life. It wasn’t until this blog began that I had changed the mindset to the concept of self acceptance and incorporating diapers into my life where they can help me be the best version of myself. This ABDL blog discusses the various aspects of my life, and the impact that adult diapers can have on them.

Husband: Married to my best friend. I have shared with her my affinity for diapers, and her acceptance of me has allowed me to accept myself in diapers (something I would not have ever thought possible). Our continued growth together has shown me how we truly are better together.

Father: My kids, and their passions, are my daily motivation to want to be a better person. I feel that my journey for self-acceptance has given me additional tools and insight into the tough conversations that have come and will come as my children discover who they are.

Child of God: I am a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (formerly/commonly known as The Mormons). My family’s faith guides and directs us to be the best version of ourselves individually and together as a family. My faith and journey in diapers are intertwined with each other as I searched for my “why” regarding diapers early in life.


My blog allows me to continue to work through my โ€œbig threeโ€ with discussion around in my personal, professional, and family life. Here are some of my latest posts.


You Let Me Take My Time

A reminder for me about the important of patience for the spouse A Quick conversation in the car about how she gained comfort with my affinity for diapers Iโ€™ve shared with many other ABDLs that a big part of the success that Iโ€™ve seen my wife and I experience together has been the small, babyโ€ฆ

Getting ready for the day

My wife and I had just gone for a run and a hike and had gotten back to the house together and we’re regrouping for the afternoon and the evening festivities.  After we were done showering I started getting dressed by putting back on the dry Little King that I had started my day with. โ€ฆ

Unplanned padding at the Temple

A first and a reinforcement that God loves us, with all of our โ€œthingsโ€ The vast majority of humans seek and enjoy positive affirmations.  No matter where we are on our journey of life we look for reassurance that we are headed down the right path (or at least in the right direction).  This canโ€ฆ


The Power of Community – I started a Discord Server for ABDLs and their loved ones as we all search for community, acceptance, and deeper understanding of who we are. I welcome you to reach out for an invite and join our great group of men and women trying to live their best lives.


I continue to work on a comprehensive list of resources that help both the ABDL and their loved ones in the search for acceptance and understanding.


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