Atop a mountain, thinking about other littles

I use the term littles generally, meaning ABDLs. I know there are distinguishing factors, but I feel like littles is much easier and nicer to say than ABDLs. Littles feels friendlier, feels more like family/community. Anyway.. I recently went on a hike.  What made this hike different than others I have taken in the past … Continue reading Atop a mountain, thinking about other littles

Heart to Heart – Principle 9, Blessed are the Peacemakers

“We demonstrate our sincerity by taking action.”   Here we see the element of action come back that I have been looking for.  The first eight principles focused on grace and how much nothing we are. Perhaps this principle will bring back the action into “faith without works is dead.” The committee of voices that dictate … Continue reading Heart to Heart – Principle 9, Blessed are the Peacemakers

Heart to Heart – Principe 8, They Buried [Their] Weapons of War, for Peace

How hard is it to be a peacemaker?  How hard is it to WANT to be a peacemaker.   Recently, I’ve found myself in the middle of some family tension that I did not create.  Also, I have found tension and issue at work that is the same. I do not believe that I caused the … Continue reading Heart to Heart – Principe 8, They Buried [Their] Weapons of War, for Peace

What do we resolve to be?

During this time of the year there is an abundance of gym memberships, goals, and fad-dieting brought into people’s lives.  We want to make changes, but do we commit? Do we resolve to change ourselves?  The definition of resolve uses the words “firm determination” more than once in its various definitions.  We all want to: … Continue reading What do we resolve to be?

The Gift, small yet precious acts of service

A simple act of kindness causes and endless ripple.  So often in our lives as Adult Babies we find ourselves looking in, shamed of ourselves and what we experience daily.  The knowledge that we are aberrant does not escape us.  Knowing can compound our feelings, and push us deeper inside ourselves.  Most, if not all, … Continue reading The Gift, small yet precious acts of service

Heart to Hearth – Principle 7, And never, Until I did cry out

This principle opens with making examples of external and internal controls.  We must learn how to live eternal principles while battling internal and external forces. It speaks of having all desire to do evil removed, and not because we have some external force assisting us or controlling us to behave. One thing that I have … Continue reading Heart to Hearth – Principle 7, And never, Until I did cry out

Heart to Heart – Principle 6, Let This Desire Work In You

I found that I took much less notes in this principle than in previous weeks.  Once again I lead with the scriptures that I read ahead, and then come back and go through the principle in the book.  I find this generates questions that I will then attempt to discover the answers to. During this … Continue reading Heart to Heart – Principle 6, Let This Desire Work In You

Cookie-cutter solutions, and our unique circumstances

While talking with a Diaper Lover we discussed his boundaries he has set for himself.  I have found it interesting that we all do that in some form or fashion. We set our own soft and hard limits on what we are comfortable with regarding diapers and that lifestyle.  Sometimes these limits are placed on … Continue reading Cookie-cutter solutions, and our unique circumstances