Coping Mechanisms and when shame creeps in

Everyone has a mechanism with how they deal with fear.  For each and everyone of us it is something different. In a time where we are social distanced and coping with with a myriad of stresses we must: 1 - know what our mechanisms are 2 - acknowledge to firstly ourselves, and if needed others, … Continue reading Coping Mechanisms and when shame creeps in

Where are we heading?

My wife has asked me on a number of occasions where we are headed with diapers, or if there is some ultimate goal that I have. I have told her multiple times that I do not have a specific endpoint in mind. My goal, my ultimate view of success, is that we are happy together. … Continue reading Where are we heading?

Cinder, another Book Review “ish”

We find solace in the most interesting places.  Answers come if you are looking for them, and have a heart open to it.  This wasn’t a direct answer to anything that I had been searching for, but it was a moment where I felt like I connected with another experience, albeit fictitious.  These moments or … Continue reading Cinder, another Book Review “ish”

Book Review (sorta) and Creating Healthy Boundaries 

Earlier this year I message Rosalie Bent a number of times as I began my journey.  I had purchased Coffee with Rosie earlier and had discussed it a bit with her as I began talking to my wife about diapers.  During our conversations she sent me something else to read that she thought might benefit … Continue reading Book Review (sorta) and Creating Healthy Boundaries 

A Friend’s Voice – Seth – Understanding Scrupulosity

I have been blessed with the friendship of fellow littles (AB/DL) in my journey to understand myself, and the journey my wife and I are on incorporating diapers into our lives.  The first, real connection and what I now consider a friendship comes from a friend we’ll call Seth. He helped me feel for the … Continue reading A Friend’s Voice – Seth – Understanding Scrupulosity