School Lunch

There definitely seems to be a reoccurring theme of little space in my life lately.  Perhaps that is by design.  Am I reaching out to that part of myself to help me with life’s stressors or I’ve often thought that it is my little side reaching out to help me when I need it?  Either … Continue reading School Lunch

Full on little space

The teddy bear sat content with its new location on our bed for a few days.  Life was so full that the most attention I was able to give it was a high five to the face when I was rolling over in bed.  Then an hour became available and I wanted a moment.   This … Continue reading Full on little space

Her Diaper Wearing Husband

During a recent conversation with my wife about a variety of things going on in our lives we pivoted to diapers. I cannot recall why as we had been focusing on things that she is currently carrying as mother, wife, and professional. A struggle of mine that has been decades long has been self worth. … Continue reading Her Diaper Wearing Husband

The power of your mindset

Our thoughts are powerful.  So much of how we view ourselves, with or without diapers, come from the thoughts that fill our own minds.  I know that I’ve walked past the same mirror in my bedroom and had drastically different thoughts.  They have been accepting and positive, and at other times shaming and hurtful.  Those … Continue reading The power of your mindset

Recognizing baby steps

Baby steps are foundational to us making lasting changes in our lives.  These steps are in no way limited to only the journey of an ABDL.  In a discussion with my wife this week we talked about the importance of implementing small, smart changes in our lives that can build to lasting changes.   All too … Continue reading Recognizing baby steps

The difference between being accepting and acceptance

I often use the metaphor of a ”bank of trust” in regards to relationships.  My wife and I work together daily to deposit trust and good experiences into a metaphorical bank.  These deposits strengthen our relationship together and allow us to have our moments.  When one of us is struggling in one form or another … Continue reading The difference between being accepting and acceptance