Married Adult Baby Diaper Lover (ABDL) continuing my journey of self-acceptance, self-worth, and becoming the best version of myself with an affinity to wear diapers.
I recently shared in an earlier post about how important timing is. Most of us spend years worrying about this conversation, and others like it. I honestly felt that when I got married that new part of my life with my wife, and eventually children, would fill whatever part of my life needed diapers. Eventually … Continue reading An unintentional step back
Which hope we have as an anchor of the soul, both sure and steadfast, and which entereth into that within the veil;Hebrews 6:19 Thoughts from Hope, an anchor of the soul Where do we place our faith? Where do we anchor ourselves? Upon what rock, or sandy place do we build the foundation in which … Continue reading Hope, an anchor of the soul
I got an email from someone who has been reading the blog. He was looking for advise on how to communicate his desire to wear diapers to his wife of four years. They have been married for four years, and recently welcomed their second bundle of joy into the world. We’ve only communicated over the … Continue reading Timing is everything
In a story plagued with self-shame and comparison for August there is a glimmer of hope as he searches for his place in the world around him. For the majority of his childhood he is home schooled, and avoids exposing himself to the criticisms of life. He eventually finds himself in Middle School where he … Continue reading Wonder (Book Review) & Reflections
Growing up with diapers I internally struggled to understand myself. Decades later I understand how ineffective this is, and how I should have sought to talk with someone. I did make one, feeble, attempt at reaching out to my mother but I don’t know how it would have gone. The last thing a parent wants … Continue reading Slow and Steady is winning the race!
In the past few months my wife and I have taken a bit of a turn with diapers. We are not having direct, drawn out conversations about diapers. Those conversations that I am looking for where I can further understand myself cause large amounts of stress on her. Since the last time that we really … Continue reading Calling out The times I am wearing, and how they help me – Conversations with my wife
Littles, Adult Babies, Diaper Lovers, and Teen Babies all feel isolated. Many of us grow up with an affinity for something we don’t understand. Each of us ends up asking ourselves a question along the lines of “why would I want to wear diapers?” Alone, I don’t think we can answer this question. I found … Continue reading Connecting Spouses of Littles for support
Life in diapers, especially since sharing all of myself to my wife, has felt a lot like a country two-step. Two steps forward, and one step back. The last few months have come in a roller coaster of emotions where consistency wasn’t a luxury. The silver lining is that I still feel like we are … Continue reading Sometimes It’s not okay, and that’s okay
My wife has asked me on a number of occasions where we are headed with diapers, or if there is some ultimate goal that I have. I have told her multiple times that I do not have a specific endpoint in mind. My goal, my ultimate view of success, is that we are happy together. … Continue reading Where are we heading?
While taking just a few moments during my day on the computer I saw an email come in from the Church. My inbox is never empty, and there is always something to do. For some reason I took the moment and clicked on the email, and found the blog post Come as you are; Bring … Continue reading Our imperfect self is good enough
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