Here are some resources that can help build a healthy understanding of the mind of an Adult Baby Diaper Lover. This page will continue to be a living document. I welcome your reviews of content that we can post here as well. Please reach to me on Twitter or Email to help me grow this library of ABDL knowledge.
Blogs of ABDLs
Aberrantly Me – Here, obviously! – We continue to work to be a great resource for ABDLs, their loved ones, and their relationships!
The Recovering Diaper Lover – “seeking a stable path as a latter-day saint.”
Quirkily Married – Married, Mormon, ABDL, dad, employed in the technology sector, and (unfortunately) over the hill.
Informational Websites
ADSIC.org – The AB/DL/IC Support Community – You can find me there @aberrantlyme
Understanding Infantilism – Another website offering definitions and information surrounding people who want to wear diapers.
WikiHow – How To React When Your Spouse Is Wearing Diapers – Another perspective on helping find out first steps when you think he/she might be wearing a diaper. It covers medical and lifestyle both at a very high level.
Person Centered Association – So, you have an Adult Baby as a client – “Claire Maskery is a Person-Centered and experiential psychotherapist who works part-time for the NHS and in private practice, specializing in developmental trauma”
Blog Series & Book Reviews
Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb guide to Strong Self Worth for AB/DLs
Seeing a number of other ABDLs reading this book I decided to jump on the bandwagon as well as an opportunity for self improvement. Join me as I delve into her book and reflect on my own life as an Adult Baby.
- Here we go again – Introduction
- What is AB/DL and Age Play? – Chapter 1
- Research, Data, and a look inside – Chapter 2
- I choose to be me – Chapter 3
- Man versus Baby – Chapter 4
- Loving yourself first – Chapter 5
- Negative Emotions – Chapter 6
- Emotions – Chapter 7
- Losing things..
- Becoming comfortable or complacent?
- Loving myself – Chapter 8
- Secrets, surprises, sharing, and shame – Chapter 9
- Working through uncomfortable growth – Chapter 10
- Looking at it a little differently – Chapter 11
- Parents looking for answers – Chapter 12
- Now what? – Chapter 13
A series written while working through a series of professional workshops surrounding problem solving.
While preparing for a series of classes surrounding problem solving and the PDCA/A3 approach I began drawing parallels to my diaper wearing journey of self acceptance. I’m not certain where these posts will go, but I enjoyed what I got out of my last series that I hope these workshops will prove helpful for my diapered self as well.
- Beginnings
- What the GEMBA?!
- Data and Facts
- Cause and Effect
- Failure is not inherently a bad thing
- Preparing for action
- Our goal must be clear
- Countermeasures and our plan of action
A book, turned movie, about a boy’s struggles and how his family deals with it. My thoughts and review
Leveraging the Atonement and the Book of Mormon to overcome addictive behaviors
He Did Deliver Me from Bondage brings the Atonement and the Book of Mormon into a twelve-step program to help people overcome behaviors in their lives that hinder their growth. The following links are my thoughts as my wife and I experience this class for very different reasons.
- Heart to Heart, Introduction
- Principle 1 – O How Great the Nothingness of the Children of Men
- Principle 2 – I Glory In My Jesus (Part 1)
- Principle 2 – I Glory in My Jesus (Part 2)
- Principle 3 – I Know In Whom I Have Trusted
- Principle 4, Wo unto the Uncircumcised of Heart
- Principle 5 notes – Being willing to forgive our best friends
- Principle 5 – I of Myself am [Not] More Than a Mortal
- Principle 6, Let This Desire Work In You
- Principle 7, And never, until did I cry out
- Principle 8, They Buried [Their] Weapons of War, for Peace
- Principle 9, Blessed are the Peacemakers
- Principle 10, Retain a Remission of your Sins
- Principle 11, Counsel with the Lord in All Thy Doings
- Principle 12, I [was] desirous that my family should partake
A good introduction book for the loved one of an ABDL. Good read for the little as well. Aberrantly Me’s Review
A book that delves in deep regarding the concepts of Adult Babies and Diaper Lovers. Author’s Website
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