Married Adult Baby Diaper Lover (ABDL) continuing my journey of self-acceptance, self-worth, and becoming the best version of myself with an affinity to wear diapers.
During a talk I recently listened to the following scripture was paraphrased from Isaiah 6:9: “And he said, Go, and tell this people, Hear ye indeed, but understand not; and see ye indeed, but perceive not.” It is estimated that we make ~35,000 choices each and every day. Some choices are proactive, and the majority … Continue reading Seeing and perceiving, hearing and understanding
Growing up with diapers I internally struggled to understand myself. Decades later I understand how ineffective this is, and how I should have sought to talk with someone. I did make one, feeble, attempt at reaching out to my mother but I don’t know how it would have gone. The last thing a parent wants … Continue reading Slow and Steady is winning the race!
Some weeks ago we decided to begin raising chickens. My daughter has been asking for some time to have some, so we purchased six and began raising them under a heat lamp in our mudroom. These chicks soon became part of our family, and were part of my children’s school and play. They were handled … Continue reading Who we are when no one else is looking?
In the past few months my wife and I have taken a bit of a turn with diapers. We are not having direct, drawn out conversations about diapers. Those conversations that I am looking for where I can further understand myself cause large amounts of stress on her. Since the last time that we really … Continue reading Calling out The times I am wearing, and how they help me – Conversations with my wife
In the last year I have learned to focus more and more on the Spirit, and how it can guide me in my life in diapers. I continually strive for balance, and want to find the best place for diapers in my life. If they can be something beneficial and healthy in my life I … Continue reading How do we #HearHim?
Are diapers a hindrance or helper in my overall mental and physical well-being? I have had a lot going on in the last 8-10 months. Stresses from every portion of my life have presented themselves, which makes it hard to have a pillar to stand on and also know which thing to attack first. Typically … Continue reading Weight gain, eating my problems, and diapers place in stress management and running from my problems.
Littles, Adult Babies, Diaper Lovers, and Teen Babies all feel isolated. Many of us grow up with an affinity for something we don’t understand. Each of us ends up asking ourselves a question along the lines of “why would I want to wear diapers?” Alone, I don’t think we can answer this question. I found … Continue reading Connecting Spouses of Littles for support
I find that most of the things I begin writing about are spurred by emotions that are stressful or painful. We are driven to change by crisis, and that makes us grow, but I wanted to take a minute and bask in the warmth of a wonderful morning. Amidst life’s trials I feel whole and … Continue reading Overwhelmingly positive feelings
Life in diapers, especially since sharing all of myself to my wife, has felt a lot like a country two-step. Two steps forward, and one step back. The last few months have come in a roller coaster of emotions where consistency wasn’t a luxury. The silver lining is that I still feel like we are … Continue reading Sometimes It’s not okay, and that’s okay
Everyone has a mechanism with how they deal with fear. For each and everyone of us it is something different. In a time where we are social distanced and coping with with a myriad of stresses we must: 1 - know what our mechanisms are 2 - acknowledge to firstly ourselves, and if needed others, … Continue reading Coping Mechanisms and when shame creeps in
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