Married Adult Baby Diaper Lover (ABDL) continuing my journey of self-acceptance, self-worth, and becoming the best version of myself with an affinity to wear diapers.
There are moments that exist within the walls of our mind where we struggle, battle, converse, and reconcile who we are with ourselves. These can be the most gratifying or painful conversations that we ever have. All too often we avoid these conversations because they are painful. Growth, change, and improvement is painful. Like most … Continue reading Sculpting our best selves
It was towards the end of a very stressful and generally intense week. Non-stop activities, practices, school, work, side-work, consulting, and who knows what else all going on at the same time. On top of all of this my wife was less available than she normally is so I took the brunt of the workload … Continue reading Service with a crinkle
We decided to take the entire family up on the mountain to go skiing. It was the first time that my children had been on skis. I decided I would pad up for the trip since there would be plenty of other crinkling going on. I chose to wear an ABU Bunny Hop (four-tape for … Continue reading Public padding in fresh powder
Wearing in public is not something new to me. I have become more and comfortable with wearing in public the more I do it. I feel that there are times when I can recall wearing in public has furthered my own acceptance of myself in diapers. A few in particular that come to mind are … Continue reading Small, defining moments of growth
When talking to my spouse recently she commented how there are times when I need to talk for hours in order to get through something. These conversations are often diaper-related recently, and there are times when I am verbalizing thoughts and emotions for the first time. In these moments I am learning how I feel … Continue reading When conversations take hours
The whole point in problem solving is to help us reduce or remove a gap in performance. Countermeasures and a plan of attack become the vehicle in which we are able to achieve our goals of improvement. This effort, in A3, is moving from the left side of the A3 to the right side where … Continue reading Countermeasures and our plan of action – Problem Solving Series – Session 8
While talking with a diaper lover recently he asked me about what diapers feel like for me. What emotions they evoke, and how I was able to separate arousal from the comfort need to wear them. I hadn’t put a lot of thought down memory lane for some time in relation to my first adult … Continue reading What it felt like in the beginning
In lieu of the date I wanted to make a post that was about luck and being “lucky” in life. When I first began thinking about the work lucky I began typing things I felt I was fortunate enough to have in my life. I am absolutely spoiled and lucky to have the following in … Continue reading Feeling Lucky (Blessed)
There is a quote by the Cheshire Cat in Alice in Wonderland that i’ve used before, and it must have significance in my life because I used it to tee up a similar post in the past named Being SMART with diapers. When we know what we want, the path becomes more distinguishable. We will … Continue reading Our goal must be clear – Problem Solving Series – Session 7
I have a powerful connection to music. I love listening to the beauty and math behind music. Progression and flow make sense to my brain. Beat matching and creating flow for a crowd are something that I rather enjoy. I have many memories tied to songs (both positive and painful), and I find answers through … Continue reading The power of music = the power of love
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