Married Adult Baby Diaper Lover (ABDL) continuing my journey of self-acceptance, self-worth, and becoming the best version of myself with an affinity to wear diapers.
Why is it in our moments of pure elation and happiness, that we turn to think about what is going to mess it up and bring us back down? There I was, four days into an amazing week. Great things had happened, I had been working out, eating right, and checking all the boxes I … Continue reading On top of the world
When we learn to accept and understand ourselves, we are able to begin speaking "our" language. The language of who we truly are. Finding our own voice, and learning how to articulate that to first ourselves and then others will empower us to become better people. This concept came from my little sister who, at … Continue reading Speaking YOUR language
I got an email from someone who has been reading the blog. He was looking for advise on how to communicate his desire to wear diapers to his wife of four years. They have been married for four years, and recently welcomed their second bundle of joy into the world. We’ve only communicated over the … Continue reading Timing is everything
Earlier this year I message Rosalie Bent a number of times as I began my journey. I had purchased Coffee with Rosie earlier and had discussed it a bit with her as I began talking to my wife about diapers. During our conversations she sent me something else to read that she thought might benefit … Continue reading Book Review (sorta) and Creating Healthy Boundaries
There is a spectrum in the ABDL community. An oversimplification of this would be to consider Diaper Lovers on one side, and Adult Babies on the other. I have meet littles and DLs on various places on the spectrum. The reasoning and placement of ourselves along the spectrum is the resultant of many, many variables. … Continue reading Being big enough to be a little
During this time of the year there is an abundance of gym memberships, goals, and fad-dieting brought into people’s lives. We want to make changes, but do we commit? Do we resolve to change ourselves? The definition of resolve uses the words “firm determination” more than once in its various definitions. We all want to: … Continue reading What do we resolve to be?
We all wear masks, not most of the time it is not on Halloween. These masks let us hide a portion of ourselves from the world. A part of ourselves that we are not vulnerable enough to expose to others around us. This does not mean that being a little is either all or nothing, … Continue reading Our Masks
O How Great is the Nothingness of the Children of Men True self-mastery comes from turning our “self” over to the Master. I have taken many Professional Development or Organizational Management classes. I enjoy them, and revel in applying new concepts and methodologies into my life. My professional, personal, and religious lives are all so … Continue reading Heart to Heart – Principle 1
One of the largest and most positive outcomes of my journey in the anonymized, public space of blogging about my little side has been embracing the ability that diapers have on my stress management. Learning to harness the power of positive padding has helped me gain insight into what diapers do for me on various … Continue reading Stress Management, a form of pacification
I have a number of ideas for posts that I write down when I know that I don’t have time to actually draft out a post. This title was one of them, and I noticed a bit of a theme in some of the other titles without content in my list. The longer that I … Continue reading The power of positive padding!
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