My wife has asked me on a number of occasions where we are headed with diapers, or if there is some ultimate goal that I have. I have told her multiple times that I do not have a specific endpoint in mind. My goal, my ultimate view of success, is that we are happy together. … Continue reading Where are we heading?
Author: aberrantlyme
A new depth of feeling
I believe it is safe to say that I’m hard-headed at times. I know my wife would tell you that, but like most things I have a hard time seeing something right in front of my own face. This past week has taught me a new level of emotion, as well as the realization that … Continue reading A new depth of feeling
Cinder, another Book Review “ish”
We find solace in the most interesting places. Answers come if you are looking for them, and have a heart open to it. This wasn’t a direct answer to anything that I had been searching for, but it was a moment where I felt like I connected with another experience, albeit fictitious. These moments or … Continue reading Cinder, another Book Review “ish”
Book Review (sorta) and Creating Healthy Boundaries
Earlier this year I message Rosalie Bent a number of times as I began my journey. I had purchased Coffee with Rosie earlier and had discussed it a bit with her as I began talking to my wife about diapers. During our conversations she sent me something else to read that she thought might benefit … Continue reading Book Review (sorta) and Creating Healthy Boundaries
Migraines and Diapers
A parallel in acceptance and incorporation into my life For as long as I can remember I have suffered with this. There hasn't been a time in my life that I felt free of the pain and struggle that comes with it. It comes out of nowhere, without explainable (to me) origin, and can plague … Continue reading Migraines and Diapers
This is me
I think we have all felt like the bearded woman at some point in our journey as Adult Babies and Diaper Lovers. Music has always had a powerful place in my life. It has highlighted my ups and downs throughout my life. Even now as I’m writing this post, I have it playing in the … Continue reading This is me
Little space and a romper
Just when I think that I'm more or less just a diaper lover my little runs up, kicks me in the padded butt, and runs away. For this of us who have a little side, or who are aware of it, Little space is the place where I am able to allow myself to feel … Continue reading Little space and a romper
Our imperfect self is good enough
While taking just a few moments during my day on the computer I saw an email come in from the Church. My inbox is never empty, and there is always something to do. For some reason I took the moment and clicked on the email, and found the blog post Come as you are; Bring … Continue reading Our imperfect self is good enough
A Friend’s Voice – Seth – Understanding Scrupulosity
I have been blessed with the friendship of fellow littles (AB/DL) in my journey to understand myself, and the journey my wife and I are on incorporating diapers into our lives. The first, real connection and what I now consider a friendship comes from a friend we’ll call Seth. He helped me feel for the … Continue reading A Friend’s Voice – Seth – Understanding Scrupulosity
Principle 12 – I [was] desirous that my family should partake
*Sorry for missing my Sunday post. I have been unavailable, and have been playing catch up with my study of the last principle. I also didn’t realize how much I would have to write about this last principle, but I feel like I am using it to wrap up my study of this book. In … Continue reading Principle 12 – I [was] desirous that my family should partake









