Married Adult Baby Diaper Lover (ABDL) continuing my journey of self-acceptance, self-worth, and becoming the best version of myself with an affinity to wear diapers.
Wearing in public is not something new to me. I have become more and comfortable with wearing in public the more I do it. I feel that there are times when I can recall wearing in public has furthered my own acceptance of myself in diapers. A few in particular that come to mind are … Continue reading Small, defining moments of growth
When talking to my spouse recently she commented how there are times when I need to talk for hours in order to get through something. These conversations are often diaper-related recently, and there are times when I am verbalizing thoughts and emotions for the first time. In these moments I am learning how I feel … Continue reading When conversations take hours
The whole point in problem solving is to help us reduce or remove a gap in performance. Countermeasures and a plan of attack become the vehicle in which we are able to achieve our goals of improvement. This effort, in A3, is moving from the left side of the A3 to the right side where … Continue reading Countermeasures and our plan of action – Problem Solving Series – Session 8
While talking with a diaper lover recently he asked me about what diapers feel like for me. What emotions they evoke, and how I was able to separate arousal from the comfort need to wear them. I hadn’t put a lot of thought down memory lane for some time in relation to my first adult … Continue reading What it felt like in the beginning
In lieu of the date I wanted to make a post that was about luck and being “lucky” in life. When I first began thinking about the work lucky I began typing things I felt I was fortunate enough to have in my life. I am absolutely spoiled and lucky to have the following in … Continue reading Feeling Lucky (Blessed)
There is a quote by the Cheshire Cat in Alice in Wonderland that i’ve used before, and it must have significance in my life because I used it to tee up a similar post in the past named Being SMART with diapers. When we know what we want, the path becomes more distinguishable. We will … Continue reading Our goal must be clear – Problem Solving Series – Session 7
I have a powerful connection to music. I love listening to the beauty and math behind music. Progression and flow make sense to my brain. Beat matching and creating flow for a crowd are something that I rather enjoy. I have many memories tied to songs (both positive and painful), and I find answers through … Continue reading The power of music = the power of love
Providing background, admitting a problem, and analyzing next steps as we prepare for action Once we have a communicable plan in place it is time to take action. That is the focus of the background and problem sections of the A3 that live on the left side of the document. I find a huge relation … Continue reading Preparing for action – Problem Solving Series – Session 6
I wanted so much for my previous post, A series of unfortunate events, to help remove some of the emotional burden that I have been feeling. Typically writing is very therapeutic and helpful for me. For one of the first times ever I submitted the post feeling more worried and pained than when I began … Continue reading When help hurts
In LEAN thinking there are often rapid cycles of change that allow teams to quickly determine if a change is productive and capable of relieving a bottleneck in productivity. It opens up the concept that failure is not a bad thing, but a tool in which we leverage to achieve success. Let that one sink … Continue reading Failure is not inherently a bad thing – Problem Solving Series – Session 5
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