Married Adult Baby Diaper Lover (ABDL) continuing my journey of self-acceptance, self-worth, and becoming the best version of myself with an affinity to wear diapers.
Taking diapers and intimacy completely out of it I listened to an interesting discussion a few years ago about relationships. The concept was put out there about everything needing to be equal and balanced. The woman speaking delved into the concept that as a couple, collectively, we are 100%. Together we accomplish the tasks of … Continue reading Equally Yoked
It was interesting to read this chapter because I was not the target audience. I had to change the lens in which I saw and consumed the information. Perhaps this is appropriate because when I shared this part of myself with my wife early on I’m sure she had to do the same. This is … Continue reading Looking at it a little differently – You’re Not Broken – Chapter 11
All ABDLs search for their reason or reasons for wanting to wear a diaper. Early on in life we are siloed in our own minds, and often shame ourselves because we are so different from the norm that we see around us. We proceed through childhood with many negative experiences because we don’t understand ourselves, … Continue reading Secrets, surprises, sharing, and shame – You’re Not Broken – Chapter 9
We often struggle with our emotions (especially the men who are reading). Even more interestingly, we struggle with the emotions of others as well. On top of that fun fact we find that we also confuse emotions and feelings, or even the fact that they are different (a feeling is the acknowledgement of an emotion). … Continue reading Emotions – You’re Not Broken – Chapter 7
When I first began typing after reviewing my notes I typed the name of the book as “You’re Not Alone” instead of the proper title, You’re Not Broken. After beginning to correct myself I found this a very appropriate Freudian slip, and wanted to at least point out that I had done it more than … Continue reading Here we go again.. – You’re Not Broken – Introduction
I hope someday this could be a post that came more from the mind of my wife. I would love for her to be able to share with you her view of how our journey has been together. When preparing posts I often will make titles with short notes, and then return to them when … Continue reading My wife
One of the biggest stresses that I have is that my wife will have a feeling where diapers are always an irritation. Even if it is just a small one I worry that her seeing or hearing me in a diaper might cause a negative reaction. I think most ABDLs feel this, especially early on … Continue reading Not “one more thing”
Why would anyone in their right mind want to wear a diaper in public? Well okay, why would anyone in their right mind CHOOSE to wear a diaper voluntarily, period?! So many times I have asked myself that kind of question without really having the answer within grasp. Yes, I wear diapers, and yes I … Continue reading Being empowered by wearing in public and wanting to tell a friend
Data and Facts can be confused or mixed in the wrong way when we are trying to solve a problem. Put simply, data is about counting and reporting. This can be how often something does or does not happen and can often be categorized and put into groupings. Facts are reports and descriptions of things … Continue reading Data and Facts – Problem Solving Series – Session 3
I have the hardest time with the word fetish as it relates to my ABDL side. The same goes for the word kink as well. We all have a word that we use to describe our connection with diapers, and I pull back when I hear people use the word fetish/kink. Fetish is defined as … Continue reading Kink, Fetish, Quirk? What words do we use?
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