Married Adult Baby Diaper Lover (ABDL) continuing my journey of self-acceptance, self-worth, and becoming the best version of myself with an affinity to wear diapers.
We all want to feel safe. A place where stress is minimized, and we can let our guard down. A place where we truly can be ourselves. Diapers are not all of who I am, and they do not consume me but there are times when I want to be able to allow myself to … Continue reading My wife’s safe place
In a talk, Thomas S. Monson shares a story of while in the military he felt like he was standing alone. While in formation the leadership began to explain where the various denominations would worship on the military base on Sunday. A list was ran through, and in time the group shrank. President Monson came … Continue reading Standing alone, or feeling like we are
Well it happened again… I made the mistake of thinking that my wife was aware of part of my little side. I have written about giving a pacifier a try, and the mixed results that I’ve seen from it. It really doesn’t do a ton for me, but I have had success with getting rid … Continue reading Assuming, and the fallout
A bit of a disclaimer: This is the part about being an ABDL that I have the hardest time with, and it is very hard for me to try and compose my thought enough where it feels coherent. My affinity for diapers is not primarily a kink, but I feel there may be an element … Continue reading Diapers and Intimacy (there and back again)
Sitting around my family as I began reading this book I found myself shielding the title on the spine and the cover with my hands and legs. This occurred for two reasons. One, I wasn’t prepared for this family get-together to turn into me explaining what AB/DL was. This is a conversation that I doubt … Continue reading What is AB/DL and Age Play? – You’re Not Broken – Chapter 1
When I first began typing after reviewing my notes I typed the name of the book as “You’re Not Alone” instead of the proper title, You’re Not Broken. After beginning to correct myself I found this a very appropriate Freudian slip, and wanted to at least point out that I had done it more than … Continue reading Here we go again.. – You’re Not Broken – Introduction
I hope someday this could be a post that came more from the mind of my wife. I would love for her to be able to share with you her view of how our journey has been together. When preparing posts I often will make titles with short notes, and then return to them when … Continue reading My wife
One of the biggest stresses that I have is that my wife will have a feeling where diapers are always an irritation. Even if it is just a small one I worry that her seeing or hearing me in a diaper might cause a negative reaction. I think most ABDLs feel this, especially early on … Continue reading Not “one more thing”
I often use the metaphor of a ”bank of trust” in regards to relationships. My wife and I work together daily to deposit trust and good experiences into a metaphorical bank. These deposits strengthen our relationship together and allow us to have our moments. When one of us is struggling in one form or another … Continue reading The difference between being accepting and acceptance
There is a quote by the Cheshire Cat in Alice in Wonderland that i’ve used before, and it must have significance in my life because I used it to tee up a similar post in the past named Being SMART with diapers. When we know what we want, the path becomes more distinguishable. We will … Continue reading Our goal must be clear – Problem Solving Series – Session 7
Aberrantly Me 