Married Adult Baby Diaper Lover (ABDL) continuing my journey of self-acceptance, self-worth, and becoming the best version of myself with an affinity to wear diapers.
Birthdays are interesting the older we get. For many it turns from the anticipation of gifts and toys and cake to another day where we are reminded we have made another orbit around the sun. Adulthood often robs us of some of the simplicity and joy that childhood often brought us. ABDLs have an interesting … Continue reading A Spider-man Birthday Card
If an ABDL were to write a letter to Santa (or a wishlist) there would be many different things listed. These would be material things ranging from certain diapers they want to wear, a onesie, and perhaps many childhood objects or toys that they would like to have. There would also be experiences or interactions … Continue reading My First Diaper Check
Taking diapers and intimacy completely out of it I listened to an interesting discussion a few years ago about relationships. The concept was put out there about everything needing to be equal and balanced. The woman speaking delved into the concept that as a couple, collectively, we are 100%. Together we accomplish the tasks of … Continue reading Equally Yoked
I didn’t realize the difference those three words could make. Sitting here thinking about who I was over five years ago, and where I was in an interesting thought exercise. This was before many hard conversations with my wife. This was before a world-wide pandemic. This was before meeting hundreds of people I now consider … Continue reading Accepting, Acceptance, Embracing
I went back and read Diapers and Intimacy (There and back again) recently to see where I was a few years ago, and to see if I had progressed in that time. I’ve appreciated my blog as a journal of sorts for my journey, and a way for me to touch base with myself and … Continue reading Deepen my definition of Intimacy
I’ve wanted to wear diapers for as long as I can remember. The majority of my life has since been a struggle of wanting diapers, but not wanting to want them. That was until one very late migraine-filled night on a business trip when I had the concept of peace through self-acceptance enter my mind. … Continue reading Embrace, Understand, Accept, Incorporate, Operate, You
Work takes me to some interesting places. I produce and run logistics for events ranging from tens to thousands of people. Each of them provide their own challenges and stresses, and I’ve learned to leverage diapers to help me succeed while working in these environments. They can be the calm before the storm, peace while … Continue reading From an unfortunate no to a huge hug
There are more times during the week that I feel like an Uber driver. My work day ends, and practices, rehearsals, mutual activities, and whatever else may be happening this week. Most of the time it is either my wife or myself running them around, but there are small moments when we find ourselves both … Continue reading Additional Growth From My Wife
During family scripture study this year we have been discussing the Old Testament. If your family is anything like mine we have historically focused less on these books in the Bible. My wife has been doing a great job in helping the children stay consistent in their studies, and we’ve had some discussions outside the … Continue reading “My heart is softening” – My wife’s growth
Laying the foundation is essential for success in most of our lives. Want to be good at the piano? How often have you practiced your scales, learned to read music, and given the effort necessary for success? Want to be promoted? Are you laying the foundation of recognized (and unrecognized) effort to build into the … Continue reading Working through uncomfortable growth – You’re Not Broken – Chapter 10
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