A Friend’s Voice – Seth – Understanding Scrupulosity

I have been blessed with the friendship of fellow littles (AB/DL) in my journey to understand myself, and the journey my wife and I are on incorporating diapers into our lives.  The first, real connection and what I now consider a friendship comes from a friend we’ll call Seth. He helped me feel for the … Continue reading A Friend’s Voice – Seth – Understanding Scrupulosity

It is a struggle every day, every day, every day

This morning I began the day feeling off.  I had the prompting to open my laptop and write something.  I didn’t know what I would write, but felt that being able to type out what I was feeling would help me get my day started off better.  I had previously put a few notes down … Continue reading It is a struggle every day, every day, every day

Heart to Heart – Principle 10, Retain A Remission of Your Sins

My thoughts feel more like notes this week. My studies were different than that past few, so how I recorded my thoughts about this principle definitely feel like they are reflected in these words. The process becomes cyclical.  We begin to see a pattern in behavior where we must return to earlier principles and reapply … Continue reading Heart to Heart – Principle 10, Retain A Remission of Your Sins

Atop a mountain, thinking about other littles

I use the term littles generally, meaning ABDLs. I know there are distinguishing factors, but I feel like littles is much easier and nicer to say than ABDLs. Littles feels friendlier, feels more like family/community. Anyway.. I recently went on a hike.  What made this hike different than others I have taken in the past … Continue reading Atop a mountain, thinking about other littles

Heart to Heart – Principle 9, Blessed are the Peacemakers

“We demonstrate our sincerity by taking action.”   Here we see the element of action come back that I have been looking for.  The first eight principles focused on grace and how much nothing we are. Perhaps this principle will bring back the action into “faith without works is dead.” The committee of voices that dictate … Continue reading Heart to Heart – Principle 9, Blessed are the Peacemakers

Heart to Heart – Principe 8, They Buried [Their] Weapons of War, for Peace

How hard is it to be a peacemaker?  How hard is it to WANT to be a peacemaker.   Recently, I’ve found myself in the middle of some family tension that I did not create.  Also, I have found tension and issue at work that is the same. I do not believe that I caused the … Continue reading Heart to Heart – Principe 8, They Buried [Their] Weapons of War, for Peace

What do we resolve to be?

During this time of the year there is an abundance of gym memberships, goals, and fad-dieting brought into people’s lives.  We want to make changes, but do we commit? Do we resolve to change ourselves?  The definition of resolve uses the words “firm determination” more than once in its various definitions.  We all want to: … Continue reading What do we resolve to be?