Married Adult Baby Diaper Lover (ABDL) continuing my journey of self-acceptance, self-worth, and becoming the best version of myself with an affinity to wear diapers.
A little earlier this year I wrote about The Roles We Play touching on the many different roles that I fill in my life (some I choose and some that I don’t). Our gender is connected to the roles that we often fill in our lives. This is definitely not a clear cut conversation as … Continue reading Man versus Baby – You’re Not Broken – Chapter 4
One of the most commonly asked questions I get from my blog posts are about the level of acceptance and interaction that my wife has with me wearing diapers. I think the dream or ideal situation for each ABDL is different, and I think it is impossible to make a list because it will be … Continue reading Her Big Baby, and the power of incremental acceptance
We all have a set of beliefs that we live our lives by. These beliefs come from many different places, and we all find times in our lives where we question and push back on what was given to us as our foundation of how we guide and steer our lives. These bumpers for life … Continue reading I choose to be me – You’re Not Broken – Chapter 3
A bit of a disclaimer: This is the part about being an ABDL that I have the hardest time with, and it is very hard for me to try and compose my thought enough where it feels coherent. My affinity for diapers is not primarily a kink, but I feel there may be an element … Continue reading Diapers and Intimacy (there and back again)
I love data. I especially love big data that is aggregated and sorted to trend against and analyze. Through historical data we are able to gain better insight into past and future decisions in life. Data around diapers lets us know: We are not aloneOthers do feel the way that we doThere is a wide … Continue reading Research, Data, and a look inside – You’re Not Broken – Chapter 2
While being awoken on Father's Day morning by my daughter with a wonderful combination of foods that I like for breakfast I sat in bed thinking about what it means to be a father. All that it entails, and that I'm part of that club. I am part of the group being celebrated today, and … Continue reading The roles that we play
For many ABDLs the desire, affinity, quirk, or connection to wear a diaper came at an early age. My own story is one of my earliest memories, and I honestly cannot remember a time when they were not a part of my life. I may never know where my affinity to wear diapers comes from … Continue reading Separating sexual urges and the comfort of your little side
Sitting around my family as I began reading this book I found myself shielding the title on the spine and the cover with my hands and legs. This occurred for two reasons. One, I wasn’t prepared for this family get-together to turn into me explaining what AB/DL was. This is a conversation that I doubt … Continue reading What is AB/DL and Age Play? – You’re Not Broken – Chapter 1
We all must pass through trial and experience in order to truly gain empathy and understanding with certain aspects of life. I have seen and felt a mother's love, but I will never be able to truly have that connection with my children. A father's love is different, by design, and serves a very different … Continue reading Son to father, and back again..
When I first began typing after reviewing my notes I typed the name of the book as “You’re Not Alone” instead of the proper title, You’re Not Broken. After beginning to correct myself I found this a very appropriate Freudian slip, and wanted to at least point out that I had done it more than … Continue reading Here we go again.. – You’re Not Broken – Introduction
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