Married Adult Baby Diaper Lover (ABDL) continuing my journey of self-acceptance, self-worth, and becoming the best version of myself with an affinity to wear diapers.
Why do we seek to outwardly express who we are? Even in a subtle, simple way as a diaper pin on our backpack? I’ve learned that through my own self-acceptance I am more and more comfortable with embracing who I am both inside and outside of my home. This doesn’t mean that I run around … Continue reading Put a pin in it, a diaper pin
Life is hard. One of the ah-ha moments I’ve had as a parent is that my parents were in the same boat as I was. The boat of unpreparedness and sometimes complete inability to be ready for a situation that life presents. Life is something that we learn in the moment, and sometimes it is … Continue reading Loving myself – You’re Not Broken – Chapter 8
I am getting back into running. It has been part of who I am, and part of how my wife and I have continued to date for the past 7-8 years. We recently registered for a 5K Run that was “pet friendly.” Many races are, and my wife loves to run with our dogs when … Continue reading Pup play and a deeper self-understanding
Some good news.. I was able to track down my book. It was not a fun few days for a few different reasons. Not many ABDLs want this side of themselves to be public knowledge. On top of that I didn’t want my children to be the ones to find the book where I would … Continue reading Becoming comfortable or complacent?
We all want to feel safe. A place where stress is minimized, and we can let our guard down. A place where we truly can be ourselves. Diapers are not all of who I am, and they do not consume me but there are times when I want to be able to allow myself to … Continue reading My wife’s safe place
I looked at my calendar and realized that this coming week would have been the next week to post about "You're Not Alone" but when I went to the two or three places where I most often place my books or was not there. That was three or four days ago.... I continue to tease … Continue reading Losing things…
In a talk, Thomas S. Monson shares a story of while in the military he felt like he was standing alone. While in formation the leadership began to explain where the various denominations would worship on the military base on Sunday. A list was ran through, and in time the group shrank. President Monson came … Continue reading Standing alone, or feeling like we are
We often struggle with our emotions (especially the men who are reading). Even more interestingly, we struggle with the emotions of others as well. On top of that fun fact we find that we also confuse emotions and feelings, or even the fact that they are different (a feeling is the acknowledgement of an emotion). … Continue reading Emotions – You’re Not Broken – Chapter 7
Well it happened again… I made the mistake of thinking that my wife was aware of part of my little side. I have written about giving a pacifier a try, and the mixed results that I’ve seen from it. It really doesn’t do a ton for me, but I have had success with getting rid … Continue reading Assuming, and the fallout
The search (or pursuit) of happiness is one of the most sought after emotions in life. Positive feelings are some of the most basic desires of our hearts, and can be some of the most difficult to attain. Studies have even shown that people are willing to monetarily pay more to remove negative or painful … Continue reading Negative Emotions – You’re Not Broken – Chapter 6
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