Married Adult Baby Diaper Lover (ABDL) continuing my journey of self-acceptance, self-worth, and becoming the best version of myself with an affinity to wear diapers.
All ABDLs search for their reason or reasons for wanting to wear a diaper. Early on in life we are siloed in our own minds, and often shame ourselves because we are so different from the norm that we see around us. We proceed through childhood with many negative experiences because we don’t understand ourselves, … Continue reading Secrets, surprises, sharing, and shame – You’re Not Broken – Chapter 9
Why do we seek to outwardly express who we are? Even in a subtle, simple way as a diaper pin on our backpack? I’ve learned that through my own self-acceptance I am more and more comfortable with embracing who I am both inside and outside of my home. This doesn’t mean that I run around … Continue reading Put a pin in it, a diaper pin
Life is hard. One of the ah-ha moments I’ve had as a parent is that my parents were in the same boat as I was. The boat of unpreparedness and sometimes complete inability to be ready for a situation that life presents. Life is something that we learn in the moment, and sometimes it is … Continue reading Loving myself – You’re Not Broken – Chapter 8
I am getting back into running. It has been part of who I am, and part of how my wife and I have continued to date for the past 7-8 years. We recently registered for a 5K Run that was “pet friendly.” Many races are, and my wife loves to run with our dogs when … Continue reading Pup play and a deeper self-understanding
In a talk, Thomas S. Monson shares a story of while in the military he felt like he was standing alone. While in formation the leadership began to explain where the various denominations would worship on the military base on Sunday. A list was ran through, and in time the group shrank. President Monson came … Continue reading Standing alone, or feeling like we are
We often struggle with our emotions (especially the men who are reading). Even more interestingly, we struggle with the emotions of others as well. On top of that fun fact we find that we also confuse emotions and feelings, or even the fact that they are different (a feeling is the acknowledgement of an emotion). … Continue reading Emotions – You’re Not Broken – Chapter 7
The search (or pursuit) of happiness is one of the most sought after emotions in life. Positive feelings are some of the most basic desires of our hearts, and can be some of the most difficult to attain. Studies have even shown that people are willing to monetarily pay more to remove negative or painful … Continue reading Negative Emotions – You’re Not Broken – Chapter 6
Self-acceptance and self-worth are HUGE words for anyone to hear when they are at the beginning of a journey of acknowledging, understanding, and accepting part of their life that is causing friction, pain, or pressure. Whether it is an addiction, affinity, quirk, or kink we must first acknowledge the elephant in the room and allow … Continue reading Loving yourself first – You’re Not Broken – Chapter 5
A little earlier this year I wrote about The Roles We Play touching on the many different roles that I fill in my life (some I choose and some that I don’t). Our gender is connected to the roles that we often fill in our lives. This is definitely not a clear cut conversation as … Continue reading Man versus Baby – You’re Not Broken – Chapter 4
We all have a set of beliefs that we live our lives by. These beliefs come from many different places, and we all find times in our lives where we question and push back on what was given to us as our foundation of how we guide and steer our lives. These bumpers for life … Continue reading I choose to be me – You’re Not Broken – Chapter 3
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