Learning to understand my aberrant self. Working through my “big three” with the main discussion around #abdl in my personal, professional, and family life.
*Sorry for missing my Sunday post. I have been unavailable, and have been playing catch up with my study of the last principle. I also didn’t realize how much I would have to write about this last principle, but I feel like I am using it to wrap up my study of this book. In … Continue reading Principle 12 – I [was] desirous that my family should partake
During this time of the year there is an abundance of gym memberships, goals, and fad-dieting brought into people’s lives. We want to make changes, but do we commit? Do we resolve to change ourselves? The definition of resolve uses the words “firm determination” more than once in its various definitions. We all want to: … Continue reading What do we resolve to be?
While talking with a Diaper Lover we discussed his boundaries he has set for himself. I have found it interesting that we all do that in some form or fashion. We set our own soft and hard limits on what we are comfortable with regarding diapers and that lifestyle. Sometimes these limits are placed on … Continue reading Cookie-cutter solutions, and our unique circumstances
Recently, I had a work trip coupled with a family trip where I met up with everyone else. It was an opportunity for me to wear a few days in a row. While getting ready to drive to the customer’s premise I decided to pad up for the trip, and put a printed diaper out … Continue reading Moderation in all things, too much of a good thing, and Care Bears
We all wear masks, not most of the time it is not on Halloween. These masks let us hide a portion of ourselves from the world. A part of ourselves that we are not vulnerable enough to expose to others around us. This does not mean that being a little is either all or nothing, … Continue reading Our Masks
In a life with littles, we seldom find time for ourselves. There isn’t five minutes that go by that one of them doesn’t turn into Sherlock Holmes and begin tracking us down. For parents of children, I’m sure you can relate. My wife and I constantly discuss how we will continue to date, and build … Continue reading Taking a break, and my wife’s first look
For fun, what does the style of diaper that I wear convey about me to all the topics above? There is a whole other layer that can be said about what we wear as well, but I’ll keep it just to diapers. There are many, many styles of diapers that fit a myriad of purposes. … Continue reading One more about the 93% for fun
In the last week I have been struggling with a number of aspects of my life. While I normally feel that diapers help center me and bring me some form of comfort and peace they only seemed to add to the stress. With all the breakthroughs and positive movement I’ve had with my wife in … Continue reading Time away, a dream, and trying to figure things out
I doubled up last night as I was very hydrated. While getting ready this morning I found that my most outer layer was still dry. I don’t typically wear at work, but decided it was ready to go and so was I. I enjoy the space that I am in when adulting in diapers. I … Continue reading Friends I may never know
The emotions behind self-discovery and comprehension and the battle to try and share yourself with someone else. I am sure that every ABDL at some point has experienced some version of this. Whether it be within themselves or the desire to have a conversation with someone else we have all struggled with this internal desire … Continue reading Hello rock, meet hard place
