There are more times during the week that I feel like an Uber driver. My work day ends, and practices, rehearsals, mutual activities, and whatever else may be happening this week. Most of the time it is either my wife or myself running them around, but there are small moments when we find ourselves both … Continue reading Additional Growth From My Wife
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Drawing lines in the sand
There is a battle and balance between needs and wants that rages on in our minds and emotions. In our minds we can justify and rationalize actions as well as something we consider a need, something we cannot be without. In conversations with other ABDLs I have listened to many speak of necessity. “I need” … Continue reading Drawing lines in the sand
Romans 8:35-37
What can stand between our us and the love of the Savior? Nothing can, not even diapers. It seems that themes will often present themselves in the conversations I have with other ABDLs. One of the most recent ones has been worthiness. For many, especially early on in their journey for understanding and acceptance, they … Continue reading Romans 8:35-37
70-20-10 | A pattern for self acceptance and growth
Who reads the Foreword to a book? Not me, at least almost never. I love to delve into Professional Development and Organizational Excellence. There is something about learning a new concept, and then helping others put it into actions that keeps me coming back for more. Because of that I found myself recently reading a … Continue reading 70-20-10 | A pattern for self acceptance and growth
Making Time
Writing, and time to write, comes in spurts for me. I typically have a dozen or so thoughts or ideas in various forms of composition, but it is interesting to see how some topics or events rise to the top. I’m sure it is the focal points that I’m working on through my personal, professional, … Continue reading Making Time
Peace and Quiet
I think more of the world is searching for simplicity and regression than they realize or understand. Either that, or we have some rather sneaky ABDLs among us. I’m not sure which of those options are more exciting. Similar to frequency illusion or frequency bias I think that we see things in a different lens. … Continue reading Peace and Quiet
Hiding in plain sight
While watching the season finale to Community I was reminded that the Dean of the school presents throughout the episode wearing nothing but a diaper. During the course of the show he wears a myriad of costumes and outfits as he announces all sorts of news to the study group, and this was either his … Continue reading Hiding in plain sight
Every diaper is different
Three different runs, with three different coaches, that all brought a similar message back to me. I had been really struggling with myself, and many of the pressures and stresses that surrounded me. Here, in the quiet and dark I found the voices of a pre-recorded, guided run telling me a similar message (perhaps that … Continue reading Every diaper is different
The Difference Between “Can” and “Should”
I sense a theme in my own life as I had written potential post ideas down for later conceptualization and developing thoughts into words for a post. The three latest topics I have written down refer to action and discretion. This is the first I have decided to revisit because it is the oldest on … Continue reading The Difference Between “Can” and “Should”
Running and diapers
I feel like I have written two similar posts at two different times (this one and Let yourself love yourself), but I want to leave them both as separate streams of consciousness because of the impact that writing has on my life. I apologize if they are redundant. These are the two things that are … Continue reading Running and diapers