Married Adult Baby Diaper Lover (ABDL) continuing my journey of self-acceptance, self-worth, and becoming the best version of myself with an affinity to wear diapers.
I looked at my calendar and realized that this coming week would have been the next week to post about "You're Not Alone" but when I went to the two or three places where I most often place my books or was not there. That was three or four days ago.... I continue to tease … Continue reading Losing things…
We often struggle with our emotions (especially the men who are reading). Even more interestingly, we struggle with the emotions of others as well. On top of that fun fact we find that we also confuse emotions and feelings, or even the fact that they are different (a feeling is the acknowledgement of an emotion). … Continue reading Emotions – You’re Not Broken – Chapter 7
The search (or pursuit) of happiness is one of the most sought after emotions in life. Positive feelings are some of the most basic desires of our hearts, and can be some of the most difficult to attain. Studies have even shown that people are willing to monetarily pay more to remove negative or painful … Continue reading Negative Emotions – You’re Not Broken – Chapter 6
Self-acceptance and self-worth are HUGE words for anyone to hear when they are at the beginning of a journey of acknowledging, understanding, and accepting part of their life that is causing friction, pain, or pressure. Whether it is an addiction, affinity, quirk, or kink we must first acknowledge the elephant in the room and allow … Continue reading Loving yourself first – You’re Not Broken – Chapter 5
A little earlier this year I wrote about The Roles We Play touching on the many different roles that I fill in my life (some I choose and some that I don’t). Our gender is connected to the roles that we often fill in our lives. This is definitely not a clear cut conversation as … Continue reading Man versus Baby – You’re Not Broken – Chapter 4
We all have a set of beliefs that we live our lives by. These beliefs come from many different places, and we all find times in our lives where we question and push back on what was given to us as our foundation of how we guide and steer our lives. These bumpers for life … Continue reading I choose to be me – You’re Not Broken – Chapter 3
I love data. I especially love big data that is aggregated and sorted to trend against and analyze. Through historical data we are able to gain better insight into past and future decisions in life. Data around diapers lets us know: We are not aloneOthers do feel the way that we doThere is a wide … Continue reading Research, Data, and a look inside – You’re Not Broken – Chapter 2
Sitting around my family as I began reading this book I found myself shielding the title on the spine and the cover with my hands and legs. This occurred for two reasons. One, I wasn’t prepared for this family get-together to turn into me explaining what AB/DL was. This is a conversation that I doubt … Continue reading What is AB/DL and Age Play? – You’re Not Broken – Chapter 1
When I first began typing after reviewing my notes I typed the name of the book as “You’re Not Alone” instead of the proper title, You’re Not Broken. After beginning to correct myself I found this a very appropriate Freudian slip, and wanted to at least point out that I had done it more than … Continue reading Here we go again.. – You’re Not Broken – Introduction
I am constantly in the middle of a book or three. I recently had a book shown to me called Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High. I approach books like this with what I currently am working on in my personal, professional, and spiritual life. Typically there is one smoking gun I … Continue reading Book Review – Crucial Conversations
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