Married Adult Baby Diaper Lover (ABDL) continuing my journey of self-acceptance, self-worth, and becoming the best version of myself with an affinity to wear diapers.
Taking diapers and intimacy completely out of it I listened to an interesting discussion a few years ago about relationships. The concept was put out there about everything needing to be equal and balanced. The woman speaking delved into the concept that as a couple, collectively, we are 100%. Together we accomplish the tasks of … Continue reading Equally Yoked
I went back and read Diapers and Intimacy (There and back again) recently to see where I was a few years ago, and to see if I had progressed in that time. I’ve appreciated my blog as a journal of sorts for my journey, and a way for me to touch base with myself and … Continue reading Deepen my definition of Intimacy
I’ve wanted to wear diapers for as long as I can remember. The majority of my life has since been a struggle of wanting diapers, but not wanting to want them. That was until one very late migraine-filled night on a business trip when I had the concept of peace through self-acceptance enter my mind. … Continue reading Embrace, Understand, Accept, Incorporate, Operate, You
Work takes me to some interesting places. I produce and run logistics for events ranging from tens to thousands of people. Each of them provide their own challenges and stresses, and I’ve learned to leverage diapers to help me succeed while working in these environments. They can be the calm before the storm, peace while … Continue reading From an unfortunate no to a huge hug
There are more times during the week that I feel like an Uber driver. My work day ends, and practices, rehearsals, mutual activities, and whatever else may be happening this week. Most of the time it is either my wife or myself running them around, but there are small moments when we find ourselves both … Continue reading Additional Growth From My Wife
I sense a theme in my own life as I had written potential post ideas down for later conceptualization and developing thoughts into words for a post. The three latest topics I have written down refer to action and discretion. This is the first I have decided to revisit because it is the oldest on … Continue reading The Difference Between “Can” and “Should”
We all want to feel safe. A place where stress is minimized, and we can let our guard down. A place where we truly can be ourselves. Diapers are not all of who I am, and they do not consume me but there are times when I want to be able to allow myself to … Continue reading My wife’s safe place
One of the most commonly asked questions I get from my blog posts are about the level of acceptance and interaction that my wife has with me wearing diapers. I think the dream or ideal situation for each ABDL is different, and I think it is impossible to make a list because it will be … Continue reading Her Big Baby, and the power of incremental acceptance
While being awoken on Father's Day morning by my daughter with a wonderful combination of foods that I like for breakfast I sat in bed thinking about what it means to be a father. All that it entails, and that I'm part of that club. I am part of the group being celebrated today, and … Continue reading The roles that we play
I hope someday this could be a post that came more from the mind of my wife. I would love for her to be able to share with you her view of how our journey has been together. When preparing posts I often will make titles with short notes, and then return to them when … Continue reading My wife
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