It happened. The thought entered my mind again, but in a new way. Get rid of the things, because throwing something away is the best way to never think about it again. (not so much). The difference in this thought process, as opposed to my previous binge/purge thoughts, is that it surrounds the digital footprint … Continue reading Binge and Purge, digitally and diapers
We are visiting a church in another town this weekend. A different congregation, with a completely different dynamic from our typical Sunday. It is not out of the ordinary to be greeted by a number of people when visiting another Ward (what our church calls the geographic boundaries that constitute a congregation) before the Sacrament … Continue reading Visiting, feeling like an outsider, and extending a smile to someone in need
Undoubtedly at some point in your journey in the life of a little or ABDL you have felt alone. You have felt shame. You have felt uncertainty. Each of these feelings come as we wander around in the dare trying to understand what we are experiencing. Each of us have our own story, but so … Continue reading No one wants to feel broken
So much of life is deciding where to put your energy. What will I work on today, and how much effort will I put into it? If you have children that decision-making tree grows a lot more branches as your children have nine million questions and desires of their own. All to often we find … Continue reading Balancing your life and your little side
I took some time out of my morning to read through one of the books that I've purchased. Coffee With Rosie, written by Rosalie Bent, is a short book written for the loves ones/spouses of Adult Babies. It is meant to help them with the conversations that haven't happened yet, are currently happening, or have … Continue reading Book Review: Coffee With Rosie (AberrantlyMe’s Perspective)
We get high strung and nervous enough when it comes to being an Adult Baby in the first place. Adding the additional stress of making an online mistake and sharing your little life with your personal or professional life can put you over the edge. I saw a post about someone wondering what to do, … Continue reading Protecting yourself, and your littles online
This post is directed at those who heard someone say ABDL, or an associated term, and are trying to learn more or for a loved one, parent, significant other, or spouse that recently learned that someone they love connects or associates with this community. While I do not feel completely adequate to the task, I … Continue reading What do you call it?
This is the materialization of something I have considered for a number of years, but have never been able to do. Fear, worry, and uncertainty clouded my thoughts. Only the last week has shown me the power behind discussing something that has been part of me for my entire life. Yesterday, I began typing into … Continue reading Help myself, and hopefully help another..